Sociopath

after a continuous situations that happen in my life for the past few years, i finally have the chance to find out what was all the strange thing i encounter in my life such as being harass by strangers and so on. One clue that point to the possible reason of what i kept on having difficulties are probably because the people i am dealing with has sociopath personality. in a simple short form of conclusion of what define sociopath are they intend to manipulate everyone so they can get what they want without able to feel anything and are law breaker themself. in short, i think they are more dangerous than psychopath personality.

Rather to said a categorise personality , i probably was trying to find the clue of who are trying to mess up my life , who is currently unemploy and keep on harassing me at every opportunity. to the point even people i never meet and know are willing to help such person to ruin another stranger life. and sociopath description seem to fit in nicely.

so what does sociopath do in their life? from what i read they can a very successful people in career, people who look normal and charming . one you will not think that they are evil . and the joy of their life seem to be derive from trying to cheat / lie and to see whether they can get out of it without being catch. other than that, their most enjoying activity is to ruin their victim in the sense call "torturing" until they got bored and move to the next victim.  and their victim are often said to be one they can gain benefit from such as people who are highly connected and successful possibly even happy person although there also claim that they like to target the unsuspected victim.

while their victims who manage to wake up about their true nature are often find themself in extremely physically , emotionally and spiritually damage by such sociopath. in fact, quite many of their victim can be get killed in the process. while those who survive this are facing with court orders, harassment , cut into pieces and lots more problems in their life. from what i read, the sociopath will even consider get rid of their victim who will expose the truth about them . but from my own experience, if the one i met in my past is a sociopath  , not exposing the truth is even far more worst consequences as sociopath see others as an object to accomplish what they want .  in other word, people dearest to you are just an object for them  to manipulate .

one suggestion made by others is to run when you see one but i don't think that is actually useful.  although i am trying to make living in another places, this people i consider as sociopath was actually hunting me no matter where i goes work. i guess the best possible solution is to cut ties/ distance yourself if you ever notice one. Although i'm not sure "fight back" is going to be good as once you start the fight, you may have to fight it for decades long.

but one thing seem to true is that sociopath will make things convenience for them even if this mean that getting the law to be on their side. or amending things to convenience them . so i am wondering  that sociopath are now known as "antisocial personality disorder" was it influence by another sociopath as well? it seem to me sociopath was never antisocial since they had such good social skill and can act so well to blend in the community to manipulate another one.

another thing for sure, that sociopath will hurt the feeling of those who ever care about them. as we are merely an object for their goal. although this is something i probably wanted to be as well as sometimes too caring about others really burn one ownself. Although i don't intend to be one but to be able to feeling nothing about others is something i really need now. I too wanted to stop crying because of others fault.

*if you think you cannot avoid sociopath, avoid them from getting know your family and friends and personal details. a sociopath will want to know so much that they will even ask for personal details from unsuspecting people. for example asking your neighbour what you are doing when this has nothing to do with your work. 

* you will probably end up becoming a psychopath /sociopath yourself if you are not able to handle this correctly. since one of the sociopath characteristics is said to pass on their behavior to you.