What I learn about money lesson 1

I came across a book title “secrets of the millionaire mind” by T.Harv Eker. The book was small and the price is affordable for me to purchase. I begin to buy this book and read it occasionally. And there is a small advice from the book which mention that you can only handle the wealth at the level you are comfortable. And this one point have really suddenly enlighten me the questions I had about my financial all these years and the reason why my friend who earn much more than me yet left so little, in fact lesser than how much I can buy for my little luxury.
I begin to understand why in the past I had problem of keeping my income steady. And now I certainly understand why I not able to save much for all these years. The main reason is I couldn’t have too much cash where I can easily use it up. So I found a solution, I decide to move my money into a more suitable area to somewhere where I don’t own it but I control it  .
Thanks for dzi bead which had slowly open up my path in my life.